The internet has a habit of asking bold questions—especially when it comes to lesbians. So, we’re popping out of the closet to share the 20 most searched questions asked about us and the answers—because why not?

1. Why do lesbians drive Subaru?

Lesbians drive Subarus due to strategic marketing efforts by the company in the 1990s, which identified and capitalized on the existing popularity of Subarus among lesbian consumers. The vehicles were appreciated for their practicality, ability to carry outdoor gear without being overly large, and lack of flashiness, aligning with an active and down-to-earth lifestyle associated with the lesbian identity. Subaru’s groundbreaking campaign used subtle “gay-coded” messages, like the “XENA-LVR” license plate and the tagline “Get Out. And Stay Out,” to connect with the community, leading to a significant increase in sales and cementing the “Lesbaru” phenomenon.

2. Where did lesbians come from?

The term “lesbian” originates from the Greek island of Lesbos, which was the home of the ancient Greek poet Sappho. Sappho (circa 600 BCE) was known for her love poetry, many fragments of which expressed passion for other women. The word “lesbian” then came to describe a woman who is primarily attracted to other women, referencing the island and Sappho’s associated poetry

3. When is Lesbian Visibility Week?

Lesbian Visibility Week in 2025 was observed from April 21st to April 27th. This week is dedicated to celebrating the diversity, strength, and brilliance of lesbians and the LGBTQ+ community by raising awareness and promoting positive representation.

4. Can a lesbian have a baby?

Yes, lesbian couples can have a baby through various methods: 

Donor Insemination (DI): One partner receives sperm from a donor, typically through a sperm bank. The sperm is inserted into the uterus during ovulation, and the partner becomes pregnant. 

In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) with Donor Sperm: The partner’s eggs are retrieved and fertilized in a laboratory with donor sperm. The resulting embryos are transferred to the partner’s uterus for implantation. 

Reciprocal IVF: One partner provides the eggs, while the other partner carries the pregnancy. This allows both partners to have a biological connection to the child. 

Surrogacy: A surrogate mother carries the baby for the lesbian couple.The eggs and sperm can come from either the couple or a donor.

Adoption: Lesbian couples can adopt a child from a foster care system or through private adoption agencies.

5. Are lesbian abuse rates higher?

No, lesbians do not have the highest abuse rate among all groups; bisexual women report the highest rates of intimate partner violence (IPV) compared to heterosexual women, lesbian women, and gay men. While lesbian women experience IPV at significantly higher rates than heterosexual women (43.8% vs. 35% lifetime prevalence), bisexual women report even higher rates (61.1%).

6. Are [the terms] lesbian and gay the same?

No, “lesbian” and “gay” are not the same, though they are related terms for people attracted to the same gender. Gay is a broad term for people attracted to the same sex, most commonly referring to a man attracted to men. Lesbian is a specific term for a woman who is attracted to other women

7. Do lesbians get periods?

Yes, lesbians can get periods, as long as they have a typical female reproductive system and are not using birth control, have certain underlying health conditions, or are transgender women who have not had medical transition. A lesbian’s sexual orientation does not affect whether they have a menstrual cycle; it is dependent on their biological and health status, like any other woman’s

8. Why do lesbian couples divorce more?

Lesbian couples’ higher divorce rates stem from multiple intertwined factors, including a statistical tendency for women to initiate divorce, higher emotional expectations within relationships, and a phenomenon known as “U-hauling,” where couples move in and commit very quickly, increasing potential for conflict when initial emotions fade. Additionally, societal factors like minority stress, parenting challenges, and less tolerance for infidelity in women’s relationships may also contribute to relationship dissolution

The questions people type into search bars say a lot about where culture is, where its headed—and where it’s still stuck.